Oops!, I honestly say, this theme is not because I've too often seen too many bachelors bachelors-outs. Or sister who has not dared to take a decision because there ikhwah see yet established in the work. But actually my title above quotation from the phrase 'Umar ibn Khaththab Radhiyallaahu anhu as revealed in the commentary of Al-Qur'an, Al-Qurthuby vol 14. More complete expression is: "It is strange (why) young children are reluctant to marry because of poverty.
Indeed marriage is a wonderful method to keep one from poverty and lack even the emptiness. Not only lack of conditioning the heart, but also the lack of material. How tsiqqah 'kepercayaan'nya the Companions of the Prophet Muhammad to this paragraph to the extent that this makes it as a principle. Why does it say the principle. Therefore, the principle is like a conviction. And beliefs that are capable of moving the azzam 'determination', mind motion, motion ikhtiyarul basyariyyah 'efforts as a human being'.
Confidence is the fruit of the relations between him and God, while the flowers are ma'rifatullah, to know him. He knew that his Lord was the one who ensures the entire dose needs life; Ar-Razzaaq. Confidence that will be offered the companions of his verses. And such is the conviction of Omar bin Khattab RA rizki which will be conveyed to the youth who decide to get married. This is the belief when digesting the revelations of Allah in the letter of the An-Nuur (24): 32:
"And nikahilah the people who alone among you, and people who are worthy (married) and I sahayamu a male and a female servant sahayamu. If they are poor, God will enable (menkayakan) them with His grace. And Allah Area (gift), the Knower "
Concerns for her poverty would be reached by getting married. Then why do we still doubt the promise of God. As if God says in his verse "And Allah Area (His Bounty)": O my servant, why do you fear of poverty, I was the one who has all the answers Karunia.Inilah Ibn Mas'ud radi 'anhu when reviewing the ordinance of God Almighty in Surah 24: 32 when God Rabbul Jalil, menguasa livelihood of mankind give way to beauty, ease and blessing for those who choose to refine his deen with marriage. "Seek wealth by getting married!" said Ibn Mas'ud RA.
This verse begins with the form of instructions / commands. And certainly God's commandments contain immeasurable wisdom. There's good pearls are hidden, and it must lead to a happy life. Similarly, when God commanded his servant to get married. God gives rewards in the form of blessing for His bounty. The gift of ability, the gift of wealth. There are thousands of stories that prove how when someone wants to cleanse his heart by getting married just for the sake of convenience it easy to get. That is why Prophet Muhammad explained by his saying:
"Nikahkanlah people who are still alone among you, Allah will improve their character, broaden their sustenance, and add to their grandeur."
"There are 3 groups of people who promised God's help. (One of them): A person who is married because he wanted to purify himself "
So, if you want to pick up God's help untold grandeur and keberkahanya. Marry.
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